I’m pretty sure no ones told you to be selfish, but today I’m telling you just that.
Being selfish doesn’t mean being completely inconsiderate, but it means to focus on things that you want to change in your life, that allows you to stay positive. We all have enough negativity in our lives, so why cultivate a negative environment?
Stop being your own worst enemy and vouch for yourself. Write down or think about things that make you happy, without mentioning other people. The hobbies that you do, foods you love, books you enjoy reading etc. Make sure you have a lengthy list. Now look at it again… Make these your new year goals. Focus on doing these things to allow yourself to grow. Personally I cannot do anything without praying about it first.
Many times you may get distracted by life and its many busy aspects, but the most important thing is to go back to those things you know helps you build your character and spectrum of knowledge.
Find a friend and share personal goals (face-to-face), and make sure its someone you trust. Hold eachother accountable for these goals and motivate one another.
Tip #2: Focus on your goals and be your OWN hero. Reach for those goals and have fun!!